二十幾歲的年輕人最該學什麽？句句扎心

20幾歲，對於全世界的人來說都是人生中重要的10年。

“洋知乎”Quora上面有一個熱門問題叫：

What are the most difficult and useful things people have to learn in their 20s？

20幾歲的人最該學也最難學的是什麽？

這裡給大家篩選出7點高讚好評的回答，希望對大家有所啟發。

以後的人生並不是單線競爭

There are always going to be people who are smarter, better looking, more sociable, and just all around "better" than you.

總會有比你聰明，比你好看，比你更擅長社交的人，到處都是比你好的人。

In fact, you'll learn there are LOTS of people who fit that description. To be happy, then, you have to learn to accept yourself and your shortcomings.

事實上，許多人的確名副其實。開心點，你要學著接受自己和自己的缺點。

別把“努力”和“天賦”分開來看

Success does indeed come from hard work.

成功的確需要努力。

Hard work without talent doesn't ensure success, but talent without hard work ensures mediocrity.

缺乏天賦只靠努力可能不會成功，但是只靠天賦不努力，注定碌碌無為。

有志者，並非事竟成

It's unlikely you'll become anything close to your wildest ambitions, simply because you'll learn everyone has big ambitions, and there's only so many slots in this world.

你不太可能實現你最大的夢想，因為你會知道每個人都有大大的夢想，而世界上只有那麽多位子。

重新認識金錢&人際關係

Idealism aside, money = opportunity and therefore matters.

別太理想主義，錢就等於機會，所以錢很重要。

Relationships and power matter more.

人際關係和權力更重要。

你的生活終究是自己一個人的

Friendship isn't forever.

友誼不是永遠的。

Social and economic status does create divides and strains in even the oldest relationships.

即使在最長久的朋友之間，社會地位和經濟狀況也會造成你們之間的分歧和關係緊張。

父母可能沒做對，但他們努力了

Your parent(s) basically gave up their freedom to raise you, and deserve a medal.

你的父母基本上是放棄了他們的自由來把你養大的，他們值得你的認可。

You know this because with only one job on your plate, you already have no time.

這一點你應該很清楚，因為你現在隻做一份工作都已經焦頭爛額了。

總會有新問題

Adult life is about learning to live with ambiguity.

成年人的生活是飄忽不定的。

Remember when you thought you'd have it all sorted out by 30?

還記得你曾經想30歲的時候你就能完全搞定自己的生活嗎？

No, whether it be your career, your relationships or your beliefs, you will always question whether you are making the right choices and will have to deal with regret.

不會的，不管是事業、情感還是價值觀，你始終都會質疑自己到底有沒有做出對的選擇，而且將一直面對自己的遺憾。