據哈佛大學研究：一個人沒出息一定有以下九大根源
1
猶豫不決
Indecision
比魯莽更糟糕的是猶豫不決。
What is worse than recklessness is hesitation.
像牆頭草一樣搖擺不定的人，無論其他方面多麽強大，在生命的競賽中總是容易被那些堅定地人擠到一邊。雷厲風行難免會犯錯，但比什麽也不敢做強。懷特·黑德說：“畏懼錯誤就是毀滅進步。”
Those who sways with every wind are just like the grass on the top of a wall, no matter how powerful , are always easy to be defeated by those who has a strong belief. Act vigorously and resolutely will inevitably make mistakes, however, is better than doing nothing. "The fear of error is the destruction of progress," said Whitehead.
2
拖延
Procrastination
很多時候拖延就是逃避問題和懶惰。
Most of the time procrastination is to escape from a problem and laziness.
著名思想家羅曼·羅蘭說：“懶惰是很奇怪的東西，它讓你以為那是安逸，是休息，是福氣；但實際上它所給你的是無聊，是倦怠，是消沉。”
The famous thinker - Romain Rolland said “Laziness is a strange thing, it makes you feel that your situation is comfort, is a rest, is a blessing; but in fact it is boring, tired, depressed.”
3
三分鐘熱度
Brief period of enthusiasm
世界上有80%的失敗都源於半途而廢。
80% of the failure is due to give up halfway in the world.
幾乎所有的人都有過“雄心勃勃地制定計劃，心灰意冷地放棄計劃”的經歷。
Most of people had the experience of making plans ambitiously, and then had to give up in despair.
4
害怕拒絕
Fear of rejection
厚重而脆弱的自尊
Heavy and fragile self-esteem.
大多數時候，我們在人際關係中感受到的“痛”，都和“感到被拒絕”有關。
Most of the time, the pain that we go through in our interpersonal relationships is always in connection with "you think you were rejected".
5
自我設限
Self-handicapping
殺死自己的潛能力
Kill your latent ability.
拉羅什富科說：平庸的人總是在抱怨自己不懂的東西。
La Rochefoucauld said: mediocre people are always complaining about things they do not understand.
6
逃避現實
Escape from reality
逃避現實者更願意營造一個屬於自己的小世界。
Escapists prefer to create their own little world.
人的悲劇在於眼高手低。
People's tragedy is they have a great ambition but puny ability.
7
總找借口
Excuses
錯不在我。
It is not my fault .
人一旦犯了錯，第一反應常常是自我辯護。
Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often self defense.
8
恐懼
Fear
謹小慎微的且懦弱。
Timid and cowardly.
9
拒絕學習
Refuse to learn
你不是寂寞，只是不想學習。
You are not lonely, just don't want to learn.
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